I'm wondering for the spouses who left their spouses to be with their affairs and end up marrying them what is their success rate on them staying together?
My aunt left my uncle because he cheated. Years later he cheated on the woman that broke up his marriage.
My ex boyfriend's dad cheated on my ex's mom. Years later cheated on the girl he'd left his wife for.
Our neighbor cheated with a coworker. They didn't get married because no sooner did she leave her husband he was alreading whoring around on her!
Another neighbor left her husband for another man and married him. Years later, divorced.
My mom's high school friend broke up a marriage. She married the guy and before long they were divorced.
My husband's dad cheated on and left my husband's mom. He remarried and had a family but the leopard didn't change it's spots.
All I can say is that if you're with someone who will walk away from their spouse and children once, don't be surprised if they do it again.
Not to say affairs can't work out, but is that really a good foundation for a marriage.
I don't know of any statics but I do know a few ppl that did this one cheated on the man after she married him she said it wasn't the same as when they were dating. I personally think she got a kick out of the conquest of stealing him and when she got the man all that glittered wasn't gold. One just didn't work they didn't trust each other so thecan affairs worky argued all the time because of suspicion. One is still together but I don't think it will last because he has to much contact with the ex but that's just my opinion.
Add on by the way the second one ended back up with his wife I don't that's coincidence
I forgot about my friends friend she dated him for 10 years and he finally dumped her because she started to pressure him and call him out on him leaving.
I think it probably depends on why the spouses cheated, and if their marriages were strong or already problematic. No statistic will be able to tell you what will happen to all relationships. If you are asking for you, only you will know if you would be able to be in a long term relationship with your new partner.
I think it depends. There are a lot of reasons why people cheat. Sometimes they meet someone after they're married and they fall in love. Some people cheat just because they can.
From reading the other answers though, it looks like those numbers are pretty low. However, I do know two people who were the cheaters in their marriages and both are still with the person they had the affair with - one for about 10 years now and the other for 4 or 5 years.
So it is possible for them to work out.
Only 4% of affairs turn into long term, long lasting relationships! I was looking this up the other day as we were having a big debate in the office. Supposedly, 60% of married men cheat and 50% of married wcan affairs workomen!
I read somewhere once that a relationship started out of infidelity has like an 8% success rate.
My mom was married and was seeing a married man. They both divorced and got married. 10 years later, they are still together.
I guess it depends. If they learn something from the previous marriage and intend to do better, it should work. Unless there is new issues they still need to learn.:)
No way to tell what the percentage is. I'd say most don't work out but some apparently do: Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are a good example.
There many reasons why spouses have affairs, in some cases it does workout and have a good success rate 70/30
I would say 40/60. Usually they end up splitting because once a cheater always a cheater.
i speak from experience ... my marriage is going strong... been together 6 years and married for 4.. its 100% better then the first marriage
nah, cos the person who left their spouse might do the same thing again!!! :D
They can with the help of marriage counseling. Without it perhaps not!
Good question.
I'm more than 30 years into mine.
I'll keep you posted and let you know how it works out.
the numbers on that are awful...at one time I believe I read it was fewer than 10% were together after only 6 months!
you know 57% of statistics are made up.
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